One father faced intense criticism simply because he didn’t look like what society typically expects a “good dad” to look like. But when his wife spoke out, everything changed.
The saying “Don’t judge a book by its cover” is timeless, yet people often need a reminder—especially when appearances don’t align with expectations.
Richard Huff, 51, is a proud father of five and a devoted husband. He also happens to be covered in over 240 tattoos, including several on his face. His body art, which includes the names of his children and his daughter’s lips, is his chosen form of self-expression. But instead of admiration, Richard often receives harsh judgment from strangers.
“It became an addiction,” Richard explained. “I started with my legs and worked my way up.” Now, with 85% of his body tattooed, he’s aiming for full coverage within the next four years. “I don’t know if it’s the pain or the artwork, but it’s fascinating,” he added.
Despite his involvement in every aspect of his children’s lives—including PTA meetings and school events—his appearance has drawn unwanted attention. Some of his kids’ classmates have even found him intimidating. His daughter, however, is quick to defend him: “They say he’s scary, and I tell them, ‘No, my dad’s not scary—he’s just really good with tattoos.’”
Even his wife Marita admits she initially misjudged him. “I was scared at first and judged him based on his looks. But once I got to know him, I realized he’s incredibly kind and loving.” Marita, who had three children from previous relationships, says Richard stepped in and embraced them as his own. “He’s more than a real father to them.”
She frequently shares their family life online, posting photos and videos that showcase Richard’s loving nature. Still, not everyone sees past his tattoos. One comment read, “I’m not against tattoos, but honestly, does he really need them on his face?”
Others, however, rally in his defense. “He likes his face tattoos. He’s a good father. Let him live,” one supporter wrote.
Richard is unfazed by the hate. “If someone makes negative comments, it says more about them than me,” he said. “We’re happy, our kids are happy, and that’s what really matters.”
He adds, “Having tattoos doesn’t make me a bad father—it gives my kids a broader view of life. They’re not afraid of me; they love me for who I am.”
At the end of the day, Richard Huff is a powerful reminder that love, not looks, defines a parent.
